Star*Mate
Composite Report for
Prince
Charles
and
Camilla
Parker Bowles
Birth
Data for Prince:
Prince
Charles
November
13, 1948
9:14
PM
London,
England
Birth
Data for Camilla:
Camilla
Parker Bowles
July
17, 1947
7:00
AM
London,
England
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This interpretation is
based on the composite chart and planetary positions at birth. For astrology students, these and other
technical information, are listed below:
Prince: Camilla: Composite:
Sun 21 Sco 25 23 Can 47 22 Vir 36
Moon 18 Ari 07 9 Can 56 29 Tau 02
Mercury 5 Sco 27 19 Can 56 12 Vir 41
Venus 15 Lib 10 10 Can 34 27 Leo 52
Mars 20 Sag 12 11 Gem 17 15 Pis 44
Jupiter 29 Sag 41 17 Sco 42 8 Sag 41
Saturn 5 Vir 13 9 Leo 57 22 Leo 35
Uranus 29 Gem 58 23 Gem 50 26 Gem 54
Neptune 14 Lib 06 8 Lib 14 11 Lib 10
Pluto 16 Leo 34 12 Leo 23 14 Leo 28
True Node 4 Tau 57 1 Gem 21 18 Tau 09
Asc. 4 Leo 41 3 Leo 06 3 Leo 54
MC 12 Ari 12 9 Ari 49 11 Ari 01
Chiron 28 Sco 06 2 Sco 31 15 Sco 18
Ceres 19 Leo 36 2 Tau 33 26 Gem 04
Juno 1 Ari 28 18 Sag 21 9 Aqu 55
Vesta 24 Lib 56 22 Gem 37 23 Leo 46
Psyche 10 Sag 44 16 Vir 05 28 Lib 24
Sappho 9 Pis 16 10 Lib 31 24 Sag 53
Eros 27 Lib 06 3 Sag 36 15 Sco 21
Cupido 16 Lib 56 7 Gem 25 12 Leo 10
Amor 1 Aqu 32 13 Gem 35 7 Ari 34
Aphrodite 14 Lib 09 16 Can 58 0 Vir 33
True Lilith 4 Pis 44 22 Cap 50 13 Aqu 47
1st house cusp 4 Leo 41 3 Leo 06 3 Leo 54
2nd house cusp 27 Leo 10 25 Leo 21 26 Leo 16
3rd house cusp 19 Vir 38 17 Vir 31 18 Vir 34
4th house cusp 12 Lib 12 9 Lib 49 11 Lib 01
5th house cusp 9 Sag 05 7 Sag 18 8 Sag 12
6th house cusp 10 Cap 34 9 Cap 04 9 Cap 49
7th house cusp 4 Aqu 41 3 Aqu 06 3 Aqu 54
8th house cusp 27 Aqu 10 25 Aqu 21 26 Aqu 16
9th house cusp 19 Pis 38 17 Pis 31 18 Pis 34
10th house cusp 12 Ari 12 9 Ari 49 11 Ari 01
11th house cusp 9 Gem 05 7 Gem 18 8 Gem 12
12th house cusp 10 Can 34 9 Can 04 9 Can 49
Note: True Lilith is
the true apogee of the Moon, also known as Black Moon Lilith
Prince: Tropical KOCH, GMT: 21:14:00, 51 N 30
0 W 10
Camilla: Tropical KOCH, GMT: 05:00:00, 51 N 30
0 W 10
Aspects and orbs:
Conj : 8 Deg 00 Min Trine
: 5 Deg 00 Min Quncnx : 2 Deg 00
Min
Opp : 8 Deg 00 Min Sextile: 2 Deg 00 Min SemiSqr: 2 Deg 00 Min
Square: 5 Deg 00
Min SemiSxt: 2 Deg 00 Min Sesqu
: 2 Deg 00 Min
Note: The composite
house cusp calculations are based on the latitude of 51 N 30
Introduction
"The meeting
of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there
is any reaction, both are transformed." Carl Jung
When we enter into a
relationship with another person, we become a part of something greater than
ourselves, the relationship. We are
lifted out of ourselves. And it is
through relationship, that we can truly see who we are as individuals, both the
light and dark. So it is where it is
most possible to develop personally, professionally and spiritually.
Astrology, derived
from the Ancient Greek word astrologia meaning "telling of the
stars," affords us information that usually remains hidden. Having a clear overview and understanding can
empower us to achieve harmony and wholeness through a relationship and guide us
through any troubled or dangerous waters.
The composite (or relationship) chart can tell us what a relationship
looks like inside, where we meet and where we don’t. It shows us what experiences are possible
together, what is easy or difficult. The
composite chart will reveal the pattern and magic of a relationship when people
come together. It is special and unique,
just as the individuals who are relating, and ceases to exist when they are no
longer together.
We long to participate
in the magic and upliftment of relationship and we want to avoid the challenges
and fears that it also brings. With the
blueprint of our relationship in hand, we can gain and apply antidotes to the
pains of relationship & celebrate more consciously the delights. Sometimes this means we can grow a common
garden variety relationship into an exotic flower that can be appreciated and
benefit all, including ourselves. And sometimes
it precludes anything happening at all except the chaos of weeds. The choice all depends on the individuals
involved, their goals, values and focus and what they do with the blueprint.
There is also a
Mystery at the heart of every relationship that is not even revealed by the
‘telling’ of astrology. This is the
uncharted territory of which even astrology can only allude to as Love or Fate.
These are the
strengths and limitations of the composite chart and this interpretation
attempts to empower you both with the blueprint and tools to guide your way in
your relationship.
"The ritual of
marriage is not simply a social event; it is a crossing of threads in the
fabric of fate. Many strands bring the couple and their families together and
spin their lives into a fabric that is woven on their children."
Portuguese-Jewish Wedding Ceremony.
Copyright 2006 Pemo
Theodore
Chapter
1: Important Issues and Themes in your Relationship
"Intimate
relationships cannot substitute for a life plan. But to have any meaning or
viability at all, a life plan must include intimate relationships."
Harriet Lerner
Every relationship is
as individual, as are its participants! This chapter looks at the very bedrock
of your relationship and identifies what your potential is when you are
together. Each relationship has issues
that need to be dealt with on an ongoing basis and different ways of dealing
with them. There are also certain areas
of life within which individuals find themselves when they are together. If the essence of a relationship is healthy
and positive, there is nothing that you cannot accomplish in life and then the
relationship is self-renewing and fulfilling.
It is important to identify what in essence you have together that you
can then build on. Then everything else
is bonus!
Second/Eighth House
Emphasis in Composite Chart (4 or more planets):
This relationship is
incredibly stable and will be rock solid for you and also possibly serve others
in that way too. There may be a strong
focus on creating material security together and you will definitely benefit by
being together, whether this is spiritually or materially will depend on your
focus. This is a great relationship for business or commitment as your focus
will be on going the distance together. There is a depth here too that supports
intimacy, both sexual and emotional and shared resources. However it may be hard to change or loosen
your hold on this relationship, if ever that is needed.
Sun in 3rd or 9th
house in composite chart:
There is a light and
free manner to this relationship and you will enjoy expressing yourselves
through learning, growing and traveling together. Communication and networking with others are
very important and you may find it easy to include others who will bring much
mental stimulus to the relationship. You
both like to know that there is meaning in being together. Movement both of ideas and of the
relationship is essential for it work well for both of you. Whichever person
appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with the
connecting and learning strength, when you are together.
Moon in 4th or 10th
house in composite chart:
This personal
relationship is very good for marriage, business or both as you would feel so
comfortable in your roles with each other.
This is a significant personal relationship. The structure that you create will also be a
source of personal nourishment to others connected to you. Whichever person
appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with the
personal bond and structure that you have together.
Sun Opposition
Mars:
This is a strongly
dynamic and attractive relationship where you both need to express your
individual desires whilst together.
Sexuality, work and physical activities are good opportunities for
togetherness with this dynamic connection.
Be careful of being aggressive and too competitive with each other which
can preclude relating. Whichever person
appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this very
active energy, when you are together.
Sun Square Uranus:
Your individual
expression is challenged by this relationship and you may struggle to be
involved. It is important to balance
your individual insight and needs for space together with working together on
meaningful projects. There is a danger
here that you may feel it is easier to fly solo than to be together, so be
creative with this relationship - it has to have its own stamp! Whichever
person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this
pull to do their own thing, when you are together.
Sun Semisextile
Saturn:
You can establish a
sense of security within this relationship.
You value consistency and are in touch with what motivates your security
needs. Whichever person appears to be
the more active partner may identify much more with this stability, when you
are together.
Moon Square Venus:
You may have a
conflict between you about how you love and how much love you need. It is important to communicate your love
needs and understand when and how they need to be met within the
relationship. Also it is important to
understand when these needs are realistic within a relationship and when they
may be just a symptom of childhood emotional memories. You also need to be aware of the superficial
concern with how the relationship looks and to try and value each other for who
you are on the deeper level. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive
partner may identify much more with this need for appreciation, when you are
together.
Chapter
2: How You Complement One Another
"Passion makes
the world go round. Love just makes it a safer place." Ice T, The Ice
Opinion
It feels like a kind
of magic when people are attracted to each other, about which we can only
wonder. If it is not there, we are not
drawn to continue connecting with each other.
Depending on the strength and quality of this attraction it is easy,
delightful or compulsive to connect.
When we are in a long term relationship with someone it provides a pull
that brings us back together through more difficult times. It is the desire adhesive that sticks us
together; otherwise we would easily drift away from each other due to all the
pressures of modern life. This magnetism,
lack of it or repulsion is the subtle energy that binds us, or not, in
relationship with others. That
attraction can comprise of sexual desire, physical appreciation and feelings of
love and warmth that are easily accessible.
It helps us make the compromises that are necessary in any partnership
and encourages our collaborating and co-operating with one another. As a result it is an extremely important
factor in the fate and enjoyment of any kind of relationship.
Venus in 2nd or 8th
house in composite chart:
You value &
appreciate this relationship and love each other very loyally. You may enjoy building up your financial and
creative resources together. You have a
sense of security and trust in the love that you share together. You may feel very deep levels of love for
each other and the sexual expression of your love would be a further dimension
of care towards each other. You love to
express your romantic love intimately.
Mars in 2nd or 8th
house in composite chart:
This could be a highly
sexual relationship where a lot of value is placed on your physical
expression. You will both put a lot of
energy towards making sure that your security needs are taken care of, as in
earning money and accumulating possessions.
However you also need to be careful that this focus on sex or money
doesn’t also bust the relationship apart.
The expression of your desire energy is important as long as it serves
the relationship.
Venus Conjunct
Saturn:
You may have
difficulties expressing your love for each other and may veer to minimal
displays. However you both value the
longevity of the relationship and so will be able to weather hard times
together. Sometimes this aspect will
feel like a strong love attraction initially that draws you together and it is
later that you may notice that you feel shy or inhibited about being
demonstrative once the relationship is established. You both value a conservative expression of
love and money.
Venus Sextile
Uranus:
You have opportunities
to feel the excitement of a love, which includes who you are as
individuals. Your friends may help you
stay aware whilst caring for each other.
The freedom that you afford yourselves and others is the magnet that keeps
you together.
Venus Semisquare
Neptune:
There will be a
conflict between your unconditional love for each other and how separate you
need to be. You will be forced to act to
resolve any problems caused by lack of awareness of each other’s
boundaries. Any compromises you make
will ensure that you will stay connected to the soul love available to you
both!
Mars Opposition
Mercury:
You are easily
triggered by each other mentally, for good or ill. You may find that your communications become
heated easily and also they may inspire sexual attraction. Your ideas challenge each other and stimulate
new ways of thinking and acting. However
you also need to be careful that you are not critical of each other and don’t
promote too much anxiety or worry in each other. Also you may find that you think and talk
about sex a lot?
Mars Trine Chiron:
You are instinctively
drawn together and your physical relationship is very healing to both of
you. You are attracted to each other on
a very basic human level. There is an
easy and sensual flow of energy together.
Mars Quincunx
Pluto:
You may find it
difficult to handle the intensity of the sexual and physical side of this
relationship. You will need to find a
creative balance between asserting your will and desires and regenerating and
renewing your energies between you.
Asc. Trine Jupiter:
There is a great ease
between your philosophy and how the relationship expresses itself. You will easily feel inspired and enthused
and find a sense of meaning when you are together. Initially you may have felt excited about the
possibilities when you are together.
Others too may be uplifted by this relationship and you will generally
have a positive response when you are together.
The world just becomes a better place, full of more opportunity by being
together.
MC Opposition
Neptune:
This is an incredibly
significant and strongly intuitive relationship! You will instantly empathize and feel
connected to each other on a soul level.
You may feel drawn to being together spiritually. However you will have to practice
consciousness on boundary keeping as this relationship tends to dissolve your
individual boundaries instantly. Be
careful to honor each other’s individual selves and clarify those as well. Clear communication is the main tool that can
support this relationship in working at its most positive.
MC Trine Jupiter:
This is a significant
relationship as your opportunities for expansion and growth flow easily with
the integrity and core of the relationship.
You both feel blessed by the sense of optimism that this relationship engenders
and there may also be a sense of confidence that there is nothing you can’t do
together.
MC Trine Pluto:
This is a significant
relationship as the intensity and profundity when you are together flow easily
with the integrity and core of the relationship. There is an ability to support each other in
change through love rather than manipulation.
It is easy to empower each other through this relationship.
MC Quincunx
Mercury:
This is a significant
relationship but you will need to be creative as regards your communication
styles and ideas. There may be
challenges between the integrity and core of the relationship and how you think
independently and communicate to each other.
You will both value your individual ideas and understand what motivates
them. Others will acknowledge the
creativity that is necessary to resolve this.
MC
Sesquiquadrate Venus:
Although a significant
relationship, there will be some conflict with the integrity and core of this
relationship and the attraction and love you feel for each other. You will be forced to act to resolve this in
a positive manner within the relationship.
Chapter
3: How You Communicate
"Listen. Do
not have an opinion while you listen because frankly, your opinion doesn’t hold
much water outside of Your Universe. Just listen. Listen until their brain has
been twisted like a dripping towel and what they have to say is all over the
floor." Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, 02-14-2003
"When in
doubt, tell the truth." Mark Twain
(1835 - 1910)
The bridge that links
us as individuals and saves us from our isolation is communication and so it is
a key piece to any relationship. The
good news is that anyone can learn communication skills if they are interested
in bridging that gap. One of the main
skills is listening, and of course we can listen not only with our ears but on
all levels. And the other key skill is
truth telling. These two basic keys are
the best foundation for any kind of good relationship and guarantee that you
can continue to grow and develop together.
In some relationships
we easily develop good communication patterns but in others there are inherent
stresses or resistances to healthy sharing on this level. We then have to work harder to maintain
optimum communication levels. So when
starting any new relationship, it would bode us well if we are initially
challenged, to be realistic about how much effort will need to be expended in
developing consciousness and healthy habits for the future relationship. Then we can choose whether this is worthy of
our effort or not.
Be forewarned that the
largest common cause of relationship breakdown is when there is a breakdown in
communication. Then the bridge that
everything else must cross to link us has fallen into the crevasse between
us. Bringing consciousness to this area
in all your relationships will pay off dividends with healthy, happy and
flourishing connections with others.
Mercury in 2nd or
8th house in composite chart:
Your thoughts and
communications hinge around stability and security within this
relationship. You value talking things
through and sharing very deep thoughts & feelings, so this promotes a deep
intimacy. Your ideas also promote trust
in each other and build a strong foundation for the relationship. You value learning and may share books as
well as discussions. Movement is of
value to you both, so you may find it helpful to establish regular times to get
together to update each other on your daily lives.
Mercury Square
Jupiter:
Your individual
thinking and communication styles run into conflict as you tend to leap into
grand ideas without paying attention to the details. You may find that it is challenging to plan
your goals or you may get lost in the details to the cost of seeing where they
are leading. You generally aim for a
positive direction in your conversations but there may be a tendency to be too
overoptimistic, without getting a reality check or just too much talk without
the follow through. You may become
disillusioned as if there is no substance in your conversations or thinking at
times. Checking with each other at the
end of conversations to make sure that each person has had a chance to have
their input and brushing up on your listening skills will support you in experiencing
this positively.
Mercury Semisextile
Neptune:
You value the
intuitive mind exchange you have with each other. You are also aware of what motivates each
other’s conversations and ideas and as a result are able to empathize and
connect with each other on this subtle level.
Mercury Semisextile
Pluto:
You value the
intensity and power of your ideas and conversations. You are also aware of what motivates your
intimate exchanges. As a result you are
able to deepen your ideas and communications with each other as well as empower
yourselves.
Chapter
4: Challenges to Relating
"I love being
married. It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for
the rest of your life." Rita Rudner
In some cases the
challenges to relating are easily transformed and then integrated and in others
they feel more like stumbling towards the eventual collapse of the
relationship! Challenges in life can be
important to help us remain conscious in our participation with each other,
rather than falling into a state of unconscious participation that allows our
complexes full expression! However there
is a middle line, a relationship cannot be all about work, but needs an element
of relaxation so that we can rest and restore ourselves whilst together. If this place of refuge is not available then
we cannot and will not persist with the development of a mature
relationship. So it is important that
any relationship is not overburdened with challenges and lacking any ease, joy
and fun.
There are many kinds
of challenges within relationships; these occur mainly in the areas of
communication, sexuality, finances, security and trust to name just a few. All these challenges can be alleviated and
bridged through clear communication.
Trust can be established if you know that both parties are committed to
growing the relationship. That is the
foundation underneath any relationship, the willingness to go the distance
through good times or bad, so that when life intervenes to ‘spoil our fun’ we
have tools and a sense of perseverance to persist.
It is up to the
individuals whether the challenges within their relationships are workable and
ultimately elevating or whether they are more trouble than they are worth.
Saturn in 1st or
7th house in composite chart:
This is a strongly
committed relationship and there is a sense of duty towards each other and to
being together. You may feel instantly
committed to being together and find ‘all exits blocked’. There is definitely a strong desire for
structure and foundation within this partnership and roles need to be
identified clearly, whether this is a business partnership or marriage. You need to be careful to make sure that you
don’t overburden yourselves with responsibilities or duties. There are definitely issues as regards
partnership that need to be worked on and developed together. This is the underlying purpose to stay
together for a certain period of time.
Be careful that fear isn’t the underlying theme that binds you together,
to the sacrifice of more fulfilling reasons.
North Node in 4th
or 10th house in composite chart:
You will feel drawn to
build a structure together, whether that is family and home or a business. You will identify with certain roles as individuals
within this relationship. Within the context of these roles and the structure
that you build together, you will discover the areas that need to be developed
or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on
home, family, career and your roles in the world.
True Node
Opposition Chiron:
You will feel
fatefully and instinctively drawn together physically. The vulnerabilities that are exposed from
past relationship wounds will be brought to the surface to be released and
healed. Within the context of this
vulnerability, you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked
upon as individuals within this relationship.
These lessons will tend to be focused on relationship wounds,
physicality, sense of meaning and wholeness within relating and
vulnerabilities.
True Node Square Saturn:
This destined
commitment to each other may be in conflict with your individual social
contexts. There may be a sense of undue
responsibility, work and pressure as a couple.
Within this conflict, you will discover the areas that need to be
developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on
trust, loyalty and responsibility.
True Node Square
Pluto:
Your fateful intensity
of relating may be in conflict with your individual sense of empowerment. The transformative quality of the
relationship may cause disharmony due to issues around control. Within the context of this conflict, you will
discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals
within this relationship. These lessons
will tend to be focused on empowerment, transformation and intensity.
True Node Trine
Sun:
You may take it for
granted how easily you integrate the destiny of your purpose in being
together. You will smoothly harness your
focus for the goals that will be developed together. Within the context of this flow, you will
discover the areas that will be developed as individuals within this
relationship. These lessons will be
around mission, purpose and creative expression. Whichever person appears to be
the more active partner may identify much more with the flow of destined
purpose that is available, when you are together.
Black Moon Lilith
in 1st or 7th house in composite chart:
This relationship has
a strong soul to soul partnership, and you feel linked together at the roots of
your being. Very strong sexual and
instinctual feelings are also triggered, and this can be wonderful. However there will also be a lot of unconscious
content activated, and that can show up as willful behavior, strong sexual
drive and extreme independent action.
There are no rules for this relationship; in fact trying to force
structure to contain this energy will defeat the wonderful potential is
possible. You have a very strong pull to
be together that will draw you both in and the fulfillment that you will both
feel can be deep and soul fulfilling.
Just be aware of the potential dangers of the hidden sides of your
natures which is also released.
Communication and acceptance are the keys here to promote the best of this
potential.
True Lilith
Opposition Pluto:
This relationship is
very profound and transforming as deep emotional and sexual feelings are
triggered in each other and those around you.
There is a need for deep intimacy and acceptance will allow these wild
feelings to nourish you and others. It
is important too that you allow the feeling of Love to sustain you rather than
revert to willpower. Then normally
hidden and unconscious contents can surface and be integrated in a healing way.
True Lilith Square
True Node:
Your destined
relationship is in conflict with the deep emotions and sexuality that are
released from being together. You may
find that these more unconscious feelings disturb the fateful sense of being
together and need to be accepted and integrated. Repressing these feelings will only prove
disruptive to the relationship and contribute to lack of depth. Within the context of this conflict, you will
discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals
within this relationship. These lessons
will tend to be focused on deep soulful feelings and sexuality.
True Lilith Square
Chiron:
There is a conflict
between your vulnerabilities from past relationship wounds and the deep
emotions and sexuality that are released from being together. You may find that these more unconscious
feelings disturb your sense of wholeness and need to be accepted and
integrated. Repressing these feelings
will only prove disruptive to the relationship and contribute to lack of depth.
True Lilith Trine
Neptune:
You may take it for
granted how easily your subtle, spiritual connection flows together with the
deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the relationship. Your individual boundaries integrate easily
together with this level that is normally unconscious. It is easy to accept and integrate, so that
you are capable of intuiting together on a profound, soulful level.
True Lilith
Semisextile Mars:
You are easily able to
energise each other from a deep emotional and sexual level and are aware of
what motivates you both in this profound soul instinctual dimension.
True Lilith
Quincunx Mercury:
You may find it
difficult to integrate the deep emotional and sexual feelings you share with
how you think and communicate. You need to find a creative resolution to this
paradox and find ways to bring to consciousness these normally hidden and
unconscious components.
True Lilith
Sesquiquadrate Uranus:
There may be
underlying tensions between your needs for freedom and space and the deep
emotional and sexual feelings you share.
Others may appear to trigger this; however you will need to resolve this
by integrating this normally hidden and unconscious level.
Chapter
5: Background of the Relationship
"My mother
used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't met yet.
She's now in a maximum security twilight home in Australia." Dame Edna
Everage (1934)
"Nobody sees a
flower - really - it is so small it takes time - we haven't time - and to see
takes time, like to have a friend takes time." Georgia O'Keeffe (1887 -
1986)
"Don't accept
rides from strange men, and remember that all men are strange." Robin Morgan
We have many different
types of relationships. These days we
have the luxury of being able to be very creative with all our relationships
and can work together to make them suit us as individuals. We have grown beyond automatically relating
from predetermined roles. This is truly
wonderful as it has the great advantage that we then are challenged to stay
conscious whilst we interact with each other.
It is important in any
kind of relationship to have friendship as the underlying foundation. The origins
of the word friend come from the Old English word "freond" which
meant "to love, to favor" and is related to the Old English word
"freo" which meant "free".
This is a clue as to how to make all our relationships successful, to
honor each other"s freedom as individuals and to love each other. This can be applied to all business and
personal relationships if we want to achieve the highest expression of
potential between others.
Jupiter in 5th or
11th house in composite chart:
In this relationship
you are blessed in the areas of love, creativity, friends, fun and possibly
also children. You grow and learn from
each other by following your heart's desires and as a result you have a lot of
generosity of heart towards those around you.
This could be a "great love"!
You are both playful together and may like to be involved in
entertainments, sports or just having fun with whatever you are doing
together. Creative projects will be done
in a big way and you could benefit very much from these.
Chiron in 4th or
10th house in composite chart:
This relationship
brings to consciousness vulnerabilities from past relationship wounds, as they
relate to the roles that you share. Your
very humanity at the core and integrity of being together is incorporated as
you build the structure of home, family or business. These vulnerabilities may come from the past,
from family or your work environment. As
you accept and feel more whole about these issues, you will experience a great
sense of healing. This can extend to
those around you too.
Uranus in 5th or
11th house in composite chart:
This relationship is
about individual creative expression whether through love, creative projects,
following your heart's desires or children.
You both will value the freedom to explore your inner child within this
relationship. Just be careful that the
disruptive and willful behavior of your "inner children" does not
destroy the mature love that you have for each other. By affording opportunities for creating this
relationship to suit both your individual needs for freedom and independence as
well as the truth of your care for each other will be a positive expression of
this relationship.
Neptune in 4th or
10th house in composite chart:
This relationship has
a soul connection in its very core and integrity. You have come together to build the empathic
level within a structure whether home, family or business. However you need to be conscious and clear
within the roles you share about your individual responsibilities, to avoid
confusion or disappointment. There may
be a very strong spiritual basis to your roles together. It is important to be careful not to
undermine each other's positions and to build self confidence into your
structure.
Pluto in 1st or 7th
house in composite chart:
This is a very
profound partnership where you may feel compulsive, driven or drawn to be
together. There may be a fateful quality
to the partnership. Being together will
change you both and has the potential for great empowerment individually. Others will see you both as a very powerful
force when you are together. It is
important that you stay connected to the Love with the relationship and not
resort to manipulation or control of each other, or those around you.
Chiron Square
Pluto:
You find that your
empowerment is challenged from past relationship wounds that are exposed when
you are together. You will be challenged
to balance both your need for transformation with acceptance of your basic
human vulnerability. You have the
potential for profound healing and sense of wholeness together.
Ceres in 5th or
11th house in composite chart:
This relationship has
a strong caring focus for creative projects or children. You are able to nourish from a deep well
within your hearts, and your hearts are certainly pivotal in how you care for
each other and others. You look after
yourselves by having fun, through entertainment or sports or just through the
sheer joy of Love. This could certainly
be a very fulfilling, great Love!
However if this love together is threatened, then you will experience
the opposite face of devastation and loss.
This will be a heart-breaking loss!
Juno in 1st or 7th
house in composite chart:
This partnership has
clearly defined roles and an inherent basis that you were meant to be
together. You can go through challenges
to the partnership and still come back together. This is probably a formal relationship such
as a marriage or business partnership.
You definitely can go the distance with each other for long term results
and goals. It is necessary to be aware
of game playing within the clearly established roles that you have
together. It is human nature to
"want to have it all", much better to be honest about that than to
live by deception and game playing.
Vesta in 1st or 7th
house in composite chart:
This partnership has a
strong focus on work and home and the duties that keep those structures
maintained. There may be a sense of duty
even as regards your sexual relationship.
As a result there may be a sense of devotion or dedication to the
purpose of the partnership and a lot of hard work expended in that
respect. Be careful not to distract
yourselves with work and service when matters of the heart may need to be
addressed with love and or passion.
Psyche in 4th or
10th house in composite chart:
This relationship is
focused on a core level with integrating the human vulnerabilities that you
share within your love and sexual relationship.
You focus the very integrity of the relationship on the deep feelings that
surface and are brought to consciousness.
You are then able to weave those together with your involvement in
building together some sort of structure, whether home, family or
business. There is a great sense of
meaning in being together that feeds your soul on a higher level.
Sappho in 5th or
11th house in composite chart:
Your heart's desires
and expression are the focus of your passionate romantic and sexual
attraction. You have deep value for each
other and the areas of life that you share, whether creative expression,
children, entertainment, fun or sports.
The bond between you is the focus of most of your creative expression,
which can be poetic in some way. As a couple you possibly support others in
preparation for the challenges of formalizing partnerships through marriage or
some other official bond.
Eros in 4th or 10th
house in composite chart:
You focus your erotic
love on a core life structure that you are building together, whether business,
home and family. Your sexual passion is
integral to the lives you share together and will bring a life and vitality to
your personal lives or business. You are
very sexually compatible and this may stem from your family or heredity. Your family and business life will tend to
revolve around your sexual life as it can be compulsive.
Cupido in 1st or
7th house in composite chart:
You were pulled
together due to your strong physical attraction and chemistry that you have
together. Your physical appearance is
very appealing to each other and as a couple you look very attractive
together. This is a partnership that is
blessed with a high value on beauty and harmony. You need to be careful to not be caught too
much in the superficial look of the relationship. It is also important to attend to the heart
of your love and care for each other.
Amor in 3rd or 9th
house in composite chart:
In this relationship
your thinking and communicating will be focused on the unconditional love that
you share and how to develop that together.
You may talk about the ideal aspects of loving each other and the
boundaries between you that contribute to loving each other. You may also become involved in speaking, lecturing,
writing, publishing and media that is focused on ideal love in
relationships. You like to learn how to
keep the love flowing so you would be able to teach each other and those around
you. This could be a very creative, even
poetic relationship.
Aphrodite in 2nd or
8th house in composite chart:
This relationship
feels fated in developing a sense of security and trust in your love for each
other. There will be a strong focus on
beauty and art and this may be part of your financial security, you will
definitely own beautiful things together.
You will build your stability and value on the sense of magic that draws
you together and supports you in staying together. Your sexual relationship is a major component
of this and this may almost be equivalent to a tantric relationship where you
feel touched by the divine when you share your most intimate moments
together. You were meant to be together
and trust in the love you share.
Ceres Conjunct
Uranus:
This serious
relationship had an instant magnetic attraction to care for each other. This care comes in the form of encouraging
freedom and independent action within the relationship. This makes for unusual care and nurture which
focuses very individually on your independence and freedom. You can bring excitement back to nurture each
other by allowing this freedom within the relationship.
Ceres Square Sun:
You have difficulty
bringing your care and support for each other together with the purpose of why
you are together. You want to be
nurturing to each other but there seems to be inherent differences in your
goals for the relationship. Be careful
to pay attention to balancing both your relationship purpose and nurturing each
other so that difficulties will be minimized. Whichever person appears to be
the more active partner may identify much more with this conflict with care and
purpose, when you are together.
Ceres Sextile
Venus:
You have great
opportunities together for care and support for each other without lessening
your desire and love. You are able to
feel an attraction whilst nurturing each other.
Friends may be integral in assisting you both to experience this
fulfillment together.
Juno Opposition
Asc.:
This very important
partnership will have some kind of contract or bond, possibly marriage which
will be integral to how you present as a couple. Others will also see you as a united force
and a tight couple. As vulnerable
humans we need to work together and partnerships are a foundation of our
relationships with others. So we need to
develop these to serve and protect our vulnerabilities. In this context of safety, we can grow the
relationship in love and trust together.
This should be a long term relationship where you are seen as a strong
partnership and can foster other partnerships.
Juno Opposition
Pluto:
This is an important
relationship which has some sort of contract or bond, possibly marriage or
business that involves the intense, transformative exchanges that you
share. You are bonded together but at
times you may find it challenging in feeling empowered within the
relationship. Others may be involved in
this dynamic within the relationship.
Juno Trine Neptune:
This important
relationship easily incorporates the contract or bond that you share, whether
marriage or business with your subtle, soul connection. There is a real flow with this bond and your
spiritual lives. You have an easy
empathic connection and a harmony with your boundary issues so that you really
feel well matched.
Juno Sextile MC:
This is a significant
important relationship as the contract or bond that you share, whether marriage
or business combines easily with the integrity and core of the
relationship. There is a real flow
between the bond you share and your roles in building home, family or business.
You can experience harmony just being together and could easily live together.
Juno Sextile
Jupiter:
You have opportunities
to broaden your world and yourselves within the contract or bond you share,
whether marriage or business. You can
easily be inspired and enthusiastic within the contract you have with each
other, with just a little attention.
Friends may be integral in assisting you both to experience this fulfillment
of confidence together.
Vesta Conjunct
Venus:
This relationship has
a strong work ethic which you will embrace with your desire and
attraction. You may both tend to
overcompensate for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves
into work, healing and creative sacrifice.
However within the relationship this is where your desire and love burn
and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. You can creatively configure this strong
sense of service and healing within the context of the sexual relationship as
well, so that it can be almost a tantric experience of wholeness.
Vesta Conjunct
Saturn:
This relationship has
a strong work ethic which you will embrace within your commitment to each
other. You may both tend to
overcompensate for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing
yourselves into work, healing and creative sacrifice. However this is where the foundation and
structure lies within the relationship and so does not imply conflict between you
as regards this focus. You can
creatively configure this strong sense of service and healing within the
context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost a tantric
experience of wholeness.
Psyche Trine
Uranus:
You easily integrate
this soul union which embodies your personal development, with your individual
and freedom needs. You go with the flow
of independence and find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of
each other's eyes. You are also very
connected to each other psychologically and the relationship easily affords you
transformation and healing.
Psyche Sextile
Venus:
You can see
opportunities for this soul union which encompasses personal development and
the desire and attraction you have for each other. Others may offer you opportunities to find
who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's eyes. You also have the potential to connect with
each other psychologically and the relationship can afford you transformation
and healing.
Sappho Opposition
Uranus:
This is a profound
meeting where your sense of comradeship will be polarized with your individual
paths. You share similar values in
beauty and the arts but at times may find it challenging to integrate your independent
and freedom needs. You aim for refinement as regard deeper more unconscious
feelings and your sexual expression. By
elevating these areas through the arts and ideas and balancing them with your
independence, you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing.
Sappho Square Sun:
You have difficulty
combining the sense of comradeship between you and its expression
aesthetically, with the purpose of being together. You share similar values in beauty and the
arts but there seems to be inherent differences in how you view your
goals. Your aim for refinement as regard
deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression needs to be
balanced with your mission. You can then
experience acceptance and healing and difficulties will be minimized. Whichever person appears to be the more
active partner may identify much more with this bonding conflict, when you are
together.
Sappho Trine Venus:
You easily feel
comradeship together, where you share similar values in beauty and the arts as
part of your attraction and desire for each other. Refinement flows as regard
your deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. You can easily elevate these areas through
the arts and ideas and will be accepting of each other so that the relationship
is healing.
Sappho Trine
Saturn:
You easily feel
comradeship together, where you share similar values in beauty and the arts as
part of the commitment you share. Refinement flows as regard your deeper more
unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. You can easily elevate these areas through
the arts and ideas and will be accepting of each other so that the relationship
is healing.
Eros Conjunct
Chiron:
This is a great Love
and you can accept and heal past relationship wounds that emerge when
together! Your vulnerabilities are
touched and shaped deeply by this erotic connection. You are both challenged to love your
vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love.
Eros Opposition
True Node:
This is a destined
great Love and you were meant to be together!
Your fates are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic connection. You are both challenged to love your vulnerabilities
and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love. Within the context of your erotic connection,
you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as
individuals within this relationship.
These lessons will tend to be focused on this erotic Love.
Eros Square Pluto:
You have difficulty
combining the power of this great Love with your sense of empowerment in the
relationship. You are touched and shaped
deeply by this erotic love for each other but there seems to be inherent
differences in your empowerment needs.
Be careful to pay attention to balancing both the power of this erotic
Love and each other's sense of power so that difficulties will be
minimized. You are both challenged to
love your vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love.
Eros Trine Mars:
It is easy to surrender
to this great Love as part of your energies and sexual expression
together! Your activities and sexuality
together flow smoothly as you are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic
connection. You can easily love your
vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to this Love.
Cupido Conjunct
Pluto:
You are strongly drawn
together from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other in
attractiveness and beauty. You find a
beauty in each other that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is
integral to your empowerment together.
As a result you turn each other on sexually too.
Cupido Square
Chiron:
You have difficulty
coming to terms with your attractiveness to each other and past relationship
wounds that are exposed when you are together.
You are very much attracted to each other from a deep unconscious level
because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty but there seems
to be inherent differences in your human vulnerabilities. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both
the attraction to each other's beauty and your acceptance of vulnerability so
that difficulties will be minimized. You are challenged to understand that the
beauty you are attracted to in each other reflects a hidden beauty in yourself
and that is why you turn each other on sexually too.
Cupido Trine
Jupiter:
Your attraction for
each other flows easily with your sense of meaning together. This attraction flows from a deep unconscious
level because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. It is easy to find a beauty in each other as
that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is pivotal to your
philosophy and belief systems. As a
result this promotes desire and turns each other on sexually too.
Cupido Trine MC:
This is a significant
relationship where your attraction for each other flows easily with the core
and integrity of the relationship. This
attraction flows from a deep unconscious level because you complement each other
in attractiveness and beauty. It is easy
to find a beauty in each other as that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and
this is pivotal to building together home, family or business. As a result this promotes desire and turns
each other on sexually too.
Cupido Sextile
Neptune:
Others can offer you
opportunities to integrate your attraction for each other with the intuitive,
subtle connection together. This
attraction flows from a deep unconscious level because you complement each
other in attractiveness and beauty.
There are possibilities to find a beauty in each other that reflects a
hidden beauty in you and this is pivotal to the empathy you share
together. As a result this will promote
desire and turns each other on sexually too.
Amor Conjunct MC:
This incredibly
significant relationship embodies a destined, perfected love, which may be
difficult to experience in reality, in your home, family or business that you
build together. You can creatively
incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this
relationship. Both of you can identify the boundaries between you and honor and
love each other as a result.
Amor Opposition
Neptune:
This is a profound
meeting where your destined, perfected love, which may be difficult to
experience in reality, will be polarized with your subtle, intuitive connection
together. You love each other purely but
at times may find it challenging to integrate the more hidden unconscious
dimensions of desire and attraction. Both of you will be challenged to identify
the boundaries between you and honor and love each other as a result.
Amor Trine Jupiter:
This relationship
flows easily with your destined, perfected love, which may be difficult to
experience in reality with your sense of meaning together. You can easily and creatively incorporate
more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship.
Within the ease between you, both of you can identify your boundaries and honor
and love each other as a result.
Amor Trine Asc.:
This significant
partnership flows easily with your destined, perfected love, which may be
difficult to experience in reality. You
can easily and creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of
desire and attraction in this relationship. Within the ease between you, both
of you can identify your boundaries and honor and love each other as a result.
Aphrodite Conjunct
Venus:
This is a "bolt
out of the blue" fated relationship and figures largely in your attraction
and desire for each other. You are
challenged to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and
to benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Conjunct
Saturn:
This is a "bolt
out of the blue" fated relationship and figures largely in the commitment
you share together. You are challenged
to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold and to benefit
from the depth and profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Square
Moon:
You have difficulty
combining your "bolt out of the blue" fated relationship together
with your feelings together. You are
destined to be connected but there seems to be inherent differences in your
feelings of comfort together. Be careful
to pay attention to balancing both your fated relationship and your feelings so
that difficulties will be minimized. You
are challenged to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold
and to benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers. Whichever person appears to be the more
receptive partner may identify much more with this conflict of feelings, when
you are together.
Chapter
6: Summary
"Just because
you love someone doesn't mean you have to be involved with them. Love is not a
bandage to cover wounds." Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog,
February 16, 2004
"The
conception of two people living together for twenty-five years without having a
cross word suggests a lack of spirit only to be admired in sheep." Alan
Patrick Herbert
"Why is it so
hard to find a soulmate? Because most of
us are actually searching for egomates instead. We place the most limited and
unloving aspect of our minds in charge of our search for love, and then wonder
why we aren't succeeding. To the degree that we identify with this false sense
of self, and operate on the basis of its limited point of view, we aren't
looking for someone to love so much as recruiting fellow actors to take on
supporting roles in a favorite melodrama." Carolyn Godschild Miller "Soulmates:
Following Inner Guidance to the Relationship of Your Dreams."
Relationships can be
challenging & sometimes seem more trouble than they are worth. We are challenged to live our best life &
to be the best that we can be! These
days going down the relationship path, consciously, can be more profound &
enlightening than getting thyself into a nunnery! We see each other through the mirror &
reflection in each other's eyes, of who we are & what we are doing or not
doing! We cannot hide or delude
ourselves when we live in the light of our partner's eyes. So if we choose to
take this path in life we are subject to all the gifts & joys of sharing,
companionship, care & love that relating can bring. We are also brought more fully into conscious
attention to our own souls & personal development. We honor & respect each other's
boundaries & separation so that we can unite with each other in love &
compassion. On a bigger scale the microcosm of our personal & business
relationships are the seed of our community, our country & our planet. We have all been brought together under the
banner of humanity & our spiritual challenge is learning to live with
ourselves firstly & then others in a harmonious, peaceful & respectful
way! When seen from this perspective,
whatever needs to be addressed in our immediate relationships, will provide a
good basis for a better planet! May these reflections help serve that purpose!
Romantic and Sexual
Attraction Medium Score (107):
This relationship has
a reasonable level of romantic & sexual attraction & that means that
you would enjoy being together. This is a good foundation for any kind of
relationship that you wish to develop together.
Good Communication,
Problem Solving Medium Score (130):
This relationship has
a good conduit of communication. At
times of stress this may require work & consciousness. It is important to make sure that you both
have a regular time & place to connect & communicate so that the
relationship never has to suffer due to lack of information.
Longevity &
Commitment High Score (194):
This relationship has
an excellent ability to go the distance & be a stable foundation for both
of you. You can rely on each other &
will easily be able to face challenges or difficulties. In fact these will only increase your
commitment.
Sense of Fate &
Destiny Together High Score (221):
This relationship may
not have a lot of staying power, without a lot of work & attention. You need to agree on the ground rules at the
outset & keep communication clear if these do not serve you anymore.
Challenges &
Weaknesses Medium Score (117):
This relationship has
some challenges & at times of stress requires consciousness to address
them. We easily slip into habits &
patterns that when by ourselves we can be blind to, but within a relationship greater
attention is required. One of you or
both will register when these weaknesses are causing trouble & then you
will need to communicate clearly & work through these issues together.
"Love is the
most difficult and dangerous form of courage. Courage is the most desperate,
admirable, and noble kind of love."
Delmore Schwartz
Chapter
7: Credits
Pemo Theodore has been
a practising Australian astrologer for 26 years in many countries including
Australia, Canada, Ireland & the US.
She completed the Federation of Australian Astrologer's certificate exam
in November 1983 & was then President of the FAA on the Sunshine Coast,
Queensland. She taught astrology classes
& lectured. She was a Jungian
therapist for 7 years having trained with an Jungian analyst, Patrick Jansen,
graduating with a Diploma of Rebirthing & Transpersonal Psychodynamics in
1985. She is now a certified
International Coach Federation Associate certified Coach. She established her business Star Consulting
in Dublin, Ireland in 2000 & was featured on radio, TV & newspaper
articles. She was the founding President
of the Ireland chapter of the ICF. She
was in the first round of ISAR certified astrologers in August 2005.
Pemo's gift &
greatest love, both as an astrologer, therapist & coach, has been
relationships; what makes them work & what undermines them. She was featured in 2004 in a Dublin 98FM
promotion in which she was the relationship coach & astrologer and achieved
an extremely positive outcome for a couple.
She continues to coach them & other couples. This project, the "Star-Mate Composite
Report", has been a labour of love!